What is this thing between guys and girls? Do we call it Dating? Attraction? Interest?
We all know it’s there, but no one really knows what to call it, and for some strange reason everyone is afraid to talk about it! So what do you call it?

You’ve probably said it. “We’re just friends!” Sometimes you mean it; sometimes you mean something a little stronger, but a bit harder to define. Whatever you call it, it’s time to understand a reasonable and biblical approach to guy/girl relationships.

This book will help you protect your heart as you journey through the dangerous minefields of young emotions and early attractions. And it will help you understand the biblical principles that will ultimately lead you to true love and a “wonderful someday.”

“This is stuff teens really want to know about!”
—Teen Guy, age sixteen
“This book answered a lot of questions, and many principles made sense to me for the first time.”
—Teen Girl, age seventeen
“I loved this book! It deals with real issues that I’m facing on a daily basis.”
—College Student, age nineteen
“I appreciate the message of this book—to keep it light and keep it right!”
—Parent of a Teen

Mike Ray has served as the pastor of Hopewell Baptist Church in Napa, California, for the last twenty-two years. Prior to that, he was a youth pastor for seven years in Louisiana. Mike and his wife Verna have five children.

Cary Schmidt is an associate pastor at Lancaster Baptist Church in Lancaster, California, where he leads the student ministries and publications ministry. He and his wife Dana have three children.